Since David Jenkins first introduced us to the wonderfully chaotic, deeply emotional world of the Revenge, fans have been utterly captivated by its crew of misfit buccaneers. Our Flag Means Death gave us more than just high-seas adventure and historic piracy; it handed us a beautifully queer, profoundly moving story about chosen family, trauma, healing, and the courage to be oneself. Whether you fell in love with Stede Bonnet’s pastel linen suits, Ed’s leather-clad existential crises, or Izzy Hands’ gravelly, tragic devotion, the show holds a mirror up to our own messy, lovely human hearts.

But when the dust settles, the tea is brewed, and the red silk is folded away, which crew member actually matches your soul? This isn't just a basic personality test. This is the ultimate our flag means death character quiz—a psychologically-attuned, deeply analytical, and slightly unhinged deep dive into your inner pirate. Grab a pencil, tally your answers, and prepare to find out where you truly belong on the deck of the Revenge.

The Ultimate Our Flag Means Death Character Quiz

For each of the ten questions below, choose the option that best describes your personality, your coping mechanisms, or your deepest desires. Keep track of the letters (A, B, C, D, E, or F) you choose!

1. You’ve just had a massive, emotionally draining argument with someone you love. Where do we find you ten minutes later?

• A) Furiously polishing silver, rearranging your library, or buying an expensive piece of silk to soothe your shattered nerves.
• B) Staring blankly at the horizon, contemplating throwing yourself (or everything you own) into the sea, or adopting a terrifying new alter-ego.
• C) Practicing your swordsmanship until your hands bleed, muttering about how "softness" is the ruin of mankind, while secretly holding back tears.
• D) Sitting in a cozy corner with a notebook, writing down every single detail of their emotional failure so you can gossip about it later.
• E) Retreating into absolute silence, sharpening your throwing knives, and planning how to survive if they decide to banish you.
• F) Making a hot cup of tea, taking deep breaths, and trying to figure out a sensible, mature way to bridge the communication gap.

2. What is your absolute, non-negotiable love language?

• A) Acts of service wrapped in high-society elegance—like planning a gorgeous, customized picnic or sharing a highly intellectual book.
• B) Extreme, breathless quality time—like co-captaining a ship, sharing a secret red silk ribbon, or running away to run a quiet beachside bar.
• C) Intense, unspoken loyalty, brutal honesty, and doing the miserable, painful tasks behind the scenes so the other person doesn't have to.
• D) Words of affirmation mixed with healthy gossip, drawing intimate portraits of them, and acting as their unofficial, unpaid therapist.
• E) Quiet physical touch and fierce physical protection. You don't need to talk; you just need to know you both have each other's backs in a fight.
• F) Acts of service and emotional safety. You are the grounding force who makes sure they eat their vegetables, stay hydrated, and feel heard.

3. Choose a physical item that speaks directly to your soul.

• A) A secret closet hidden behind a bookshelf, filled entirely with fine fabrics and cashmere.
• B) A single, beautiful piece of red silk that reminds you that you are capable of being soft.
• C) A well-worn, perfectly balanced sword that has seen years of grueling, thankless service.
• D) A wooden finger or a perfectly kept journal with a pristine quill.
• E) A perfectly weighted throwing knife disguised as an everyday utensil.
• F) A sturdy, reliable orange or a simple, perfectly brewed cup of tea.

4. What is your ultimate toxic trait?

• A) You run away from your problems when they get too real, leaving a trail of beautiful chaos in your wake.
• B) You swing wildly between longing for a quiet, gentle life and completely destroying everything you love when you feel vulnerable.
• C) You repress your feelings so deeply that they turn into physical pain, and you lash out at others for trying to be happy.
• D) You are incredibly nosey, slightly dramatic, and cannot resist getting involved in everyone else's emotional business.
• E) You have severe trust issues and prefer to push people away or threaten them before they have a chance to disappoint you.
• F) You are a chronic people-pleaser who takes on everyone else's burdens until you are completely exhausted and running on empty.

5. When a crisis hits your social circle, what is your immediate role?

• A) You try to organize a fun, creative group activity to take everyone's minds off the disaster, which usually makes things weirder.
• B) You either completely freeze, have a dramatic meltdown, or do something incredibly reckless that forces everyone else to rescue you.
• C) You immediately step up to take control, bark orders, and do the dirty work, even if everyone hates you for being bossy.
• D) You observe from a safe distance, provide running commentary, and make sure you survive the fallout with your hair intact.
• E) You silently handle the physical threats, standing guard and ensuring no one hurts the people you secretly care about.
• F) You act as the voice of reason, calming down the hysterics and organizing a practical, step-by-step escape plan.

6. Which of these environments feels most like "home" to you?

• A) A beautifully appointed cabin filled with books, fine china, and comfortable velvet chairs.
• B) A cozy, quiet cottage by the sea where you can grow vegetables, catch fish, and never have to play a role again.
• C) A busy, tightly run workplace where your skills are respected and everything runs according to a strict schedule.
• D) Anywhere you can lounge comfortably, observe people-watching, and be surrounded by friends who appreciate your dry wit.
• E) A hidden sanctuary in the woods, far away from society, where you can live on your own terms with one or two trusted companions.
• F) A bustling, warm, and chaotic household where everyone relies on each other and takes care of one another.

7. Someone insults your closest friend. How do you respond?

• A) You attempt to challenge them to a civilized duel of wits, or perhaps accidentally stab them in the side of the torso while panicking.
• B) You completely black out with rage and threaten to feed them to the sharks—or worse, make them wash the deck with a toothbrush.
• C) You give them a terrifying, icy glare that makes them question their entire life, then quietly make their life a living hell behind the scenes.
• D) You loudly and publicly roast them, exposing their deepest insecurities in front of a crowd, leaving them utterly humiliated.
• E) You don't say a word. You simply draw a weapon and let them see the cold, dead look in your eyes until they apologize.
• F) You step in between them, defuse the situation with practical words, and pull your friend away before blood is spilled.

8. How do you deal with your past mistakes?

• A) You try to reinvent yourself entirely, hoping that if you dress beautifully enough and act nicely enough, the past won't catch up.
• B) You feel immense guilt, often convincing yourself that you are fundamentally a monster who is incapable of being loved.
• C) You carry them like a heavy, invisible armor, believing that suffering is your natural state and duty is the only thing that matters.
• D) You talk about them openly with a dramatic flair, turning your survival stories into entertaining anecdotes for your friends.
• E) You bury them deep inside, refuse to speak of them, and focus entirely on surviving the day right in front of you.
• F) You acknowledge them, try to learn from them, and work hard to make sure you build a better, safer future for yourself and others.

9. Choose a style of clothing that represents your aesthetic.

• A) Extravagant, colorful silks, velvet coats, and perfectly tied cravats in pastel colors.
• B) Dark leather, distressed fabrics, smokey eye makeup, and anything that screams "I am incredibly dangerous but also very sad."
• C) Classic, practical black leather, perfectly polished boots, and a perpetual, menacing scowl.
• D) A casual, breezy shirt unbuttoned just enough to show off your collarbones, paired with a stylish accessory.
• E) Practical, dark, and lightweight clothes that allow for quick movement, hidden pockets, and easy concealment of daggers.
• F) Soft, comfortable linen shirts, practical trousers, and a warm, inviting smile that makes people feel safe.

10. What is your ultimate dream for the future?

• A) To live an extraordinary, adventurous life filled with art, romance, and people who accept you for exactly who you are.
• B) To be loved for who you are on the inside, free from the crushing pressure of your reputation or your past.
• C) To know that your life had purpose, that you successfully protected the people you loved, and that you were finally allowed to rest.
• D) To live a comfortable, dramatic life surrounded by beautiful art, loyal friends, and absolutely no manual labor.
• E) To find a peaceful place where you can exist without fear, standing side-by-side with the person who earned your trust.
• F) To build a stable, loving community where everyone has a place at the table, a warm meal, and a sense of safety.

The Results: Who Are You on the Revenge?

Tally up your answers! Count how many of each letter you chose, and find your match below to see where your true loyalty lies on the high seas.

Mostly A's: Stede Bonnet (The Gentleman Pirate)

If you got mostly A's, you are Stede Bonnet (played beautifully by Rhys Darby). You are a hopeless romantic, an optimist, and a lover of all things soft, refined, and aesthetic. You probably have a secret closet full of gorgeous clothes, a deep appreciation for literature, and an absolute refusal to let go of your polite manners, even when the world around you is sinking into chaos.

Stede’s journey across both seasons of Our Flag Means Death is one of the most beautiful arcs on television. He begins as a bumbling, insecure man running away from an unfulfilled life, trying to play at being a pirate. By the end, however, Stede undergoes massive growth. He learns that true courage isn't about cruelty; it's about standing up for your chosen family, fighting for the people you love, and embracing your own unique flair. As Stede, you have a rare gift: the ability to see the beauty in a harsh world and inspire those around you to be softer, kinder, and a little more elegant. Just remember to watch out for your blind spots, and try not to accidentally run away when things get too emotionally intense!

Mostly B's: Ed / Blackbeard (The Kraken in Recovery)

If you got mostly B's, you are Edward Teach, the legendary Blackbeard (portrayed with incredible depth by Taika Waititi). On the outside, you might project a terrifying, highly competent, or dramatic reputation to keep the world at bay. But underneath all that leather and smoke, you are a deeply sensitive, highly creative soul who desperately longs to be seen, understood, and loved for who you actually are, not the myth you’ve built.

Ed's arc is a profound exploration of trauma, toxic masculinity, and the healing power of love. When threatened or hurt, Ed’s defense mechanism is to unleash "The Kraken"—a self-sabotaging, destructive force that pushes away the very people he loves. Yet, his journey in Season 2 is all about stripping away the Blackbeard myth to find Edward again, learning how to exist in peace, grow vegetables, catch fish, and accept the gentle love he deserves. If you are Ed, you are a creative genius with a massive heart. You love deeply, feel things with devastating intensity, and thrive when you are paired with someone who can ground you and show you that it is safe to put your armor down.

Mostly C's: Izzy Hands (The Repressed Romantic & Tragic Lieutenant)

If you got mostly C's, you are Izzy Hands (brought to life in a career-defining performance by Con O'Neill). You are incredibly competent, deeply duty-bound, and possess a work ethic that puts everyone else to shame. You might come across as grumpy, sharp-tongued, and fiercely resistant to "frivolous" things like feelings, talent shows, or pastel linen. But the truth? You love more deeply and fiercely than almost anyone else on the ship.

Izzy’s journey is perhaps the emotional heartbeat of the entire series. He begins as a deeply repressed lieutenant obsessed with keeping Blackbeard a ruthless killer, unable to cope with the changing world around him. But in Season 2, Izzy undergoes an incredible, heart-wrenching redemption arc. He becomes the crew's mentor, a loving "ship dad," and finally allows himself to embrace the dramatic, theatrical, and loving side of himself (culminating in his unforgettable performance of "La Vie en Rose"). If you are Izzy, you are the ultimate protector. You show your love through action, duty, and sacrifice. Your journey is about learning that you don't have to suffer to be worthy of love, and that your vulnerability is actually your greatest strength.

Mostly D's: Lucius Spriggs (The Unofficial Ship Therapist)

If you got mostly D's, you are Lucius Spriggs (played with brilliant comic timing by Nathan Foad). You are highly observant, emotionally intelligent, fiercely protective of your peace, and completely unwilling to let people ruin their lives without giving them a piece of your mind. You are the ultimate survivor, having literally clawed your way back from the brink of death (and the ocean) to claim your place on deck.

Lucius is the glue that keeps the emotional health of the Revenge from completely collapsing. Whether he’s drawing portraits, keeping the ship's log, or giving Stede and Ed blunt, much-needed relationship advice, Lucius sees right through everyone’s drama. If you are Lucius, you have no time for fake pleasantries, but you possess a deeply loyal heart. You know exactly how to read a room, you aren't afraid to speak truth to power, and you have a fabulous sense of style. You remind everyone that surviving is an art form, and that a little bit of sass is necessary to get through the day.

Mostly E's: Jim Jimenez (The Silent & Deadly Protector)

If you got mostly E's, you are Jim Jimenez (portrayed beautifully by Vico Ortiz). You are quiet, incredibly skilled, highly mysterious, and possess an aura of dangerous cool that keeps everyone on their toes. You don't do fake small talk, you have zero patience for foolishness, and you'd much rather let your daggers do the talking. But beneath that lethal, quiet exterior lies an incredibly soft, deeply loyal heart that will do anything to protect your chosen family.

Jim's journey is a beautiful exploration of moving past a life defined solely by revenge and violence. Through their relationships with Oluwande, Archie, and the rest of the crew, Jim learns how to let their guard down, smile, tell jokes, and realize that they are more than just a weapon. If you are Jim, your trust is incredibly hard to earn, but once someone has it, you are an unwavering ally. You are fierce, independent, and incredibly protective, but you also possess a quiet capacity for deep tenderness that makes you one of the most beloved members of the crew.

Mostly F's: Oluwande Boodhari (The Emotional Anchor)

If you got mostly F's, you are Oluwande Boodhari (played with wonderful warmth by Samson Kayo). You are the undisputed voice of reason, the stable ground on a ship that is constantly tossing in a chaotic emotional storm. You are empathetic, practical, incredibly kind, and possess a rare gift for making everyone around you feel safe, heard, and valued.

Oluwande doesn't seek out power or glory; he simply wants everyone to survive, eat their citrus fruit to avoid scurvy, and get along. Yet, because of his natural emotional intelligence and steady presence, he frequently finds himself thrust into leadership roles—whether as a temporary captain or a stabilizing force for Stede, Jim, and the rest of the crew. If you are Oluwande, you are the ultimate green flag. You are a natural caregiver, a loyal friend, and a steady partner. Your challenge is making sure that you don't spend so much time taking care of everyone else's emotional baggage that you forget to tend to your own needs.

Deep Dive: Why the Our Flag Means Death Cast Resonates So Deeply

Why does a personality quiz about a group of eighteenth-century pirates feel so deeply personal? The secret lies in David Jenkins' writing and the incredible performances of the cast. Unlike traditional pirate media, which often glorifies rugged individualism, toxic masculinity, and senseless violence, Our Flag Means Death subverts these tropes entirely.

The Rejection of Toxic Masculinity

At the center of the show is the contrast between the "Gentleman Pirate" Stede Bonnet and the terrifying myth of Blackbeard. Stede rejects the violence of traditional piracy in favor of a library, a recreation room, and a crew that is allowed to talk through their feelings. Ed, conversely, is crushed under the weight of his own terrifying reputation, trapped in a cycle of violence that makes him miserable. Their connection is built on a mutual desire to escape these toxic expectations—to be soft, to be creative, and to be loved without wearing a mask.

The Beauty of Chosen Family

The crew of the Revenge is a collection of outcasts who did not fit into the rigid, cruel structures of high society or the brutal, cutthroat world of standard piracy. Together, they build a sanctuary where Buttons can talk to seagulls, Wee John can sew beautiful dresses, Frenchie can invent wild conspiracy theories, and Jim can find safety and love. The show teaches us that no matter how strange, broken, or out of place you feel, there is a crew out there that will welcome you on deck, appreciate your unique talents, and fight for you.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Is this Our Flag Means Death character quiz accurate?

While personality quizzes are meant for fun and entertainment, this quiz is built around the core psychological archetypes developed by David Jenkins and the cast of the show. By focusing on your coping mechanisms, communication styles, and emotional values, the results reflect the deep-seated personality traits that define Stede, Ed, Izzy, Lucius, Jim, and Oluwande.

Why aren't Frenchie, Wee John, or Buttons included as main results?

While we absolutely love the entire crew of the Revenge—including Frenchie's musical genius, Wee John's love for pyrotechnics, and Buttons' mystical connection to the animal kingdom—we focused this quiz on the six characters with the most extensive emotional growth arcs across both Season 1 and Season 2. If you find yourself loving music, storytelling, and high-key chaos, you definitely have a healthy dose of Frenchie in you!

How did Season 2 change the characters' personalities?

Season 2 brought massive emotional shifts for the entire crew. Stede became more confident and capable in battle, learning to balance his gentle nature with the realities of being a captain. Ed went through a grueling process of shedding his Blackbeard persona to find peace as a regular man. Most notably, Izzy Hands transformed from a repressed antagonist into a beloved mentor, proving that it is never too late to heal, change, and embrace your chosen family. This quiz takes all of those profound character evolutions into account!

Which character is the most compatible with Stede Bonnet?

Within the lore of the show, Edward Teach (Blackbeard) is Stede's ultimate romantic counterpart. Their relationship is built on a perfect balance of opposites: Stede teaches Ed how to be soft, creative, and safe, while Ed teaches Stede how to be confident, brave, and embrace adventure. If you got Stede on this quiz, you'll likely find your perfect match in someone with strong Ed or Oluwande energy!

Conclusion: Share Your Crew Member Result!

No matter which character you matched with, every single member of the Revenge crew brings something vital to the ship. From Stede's unwavering optimism to Ed's passionate soul, Izzy's fierce loyalty, Lucius's sharp wit, Jim's quiet strength, and Oluwande's steady heart, it takes a whole crew of beautiful misfits to navigate the stormy seas of life.

Did your result surprise you, or was it exactly who you expected? Share this our flag means death character quiz with your friends, compare your results, and let us know in the comments below which pirate crew member you'll be sailing with!